It’s Not Him. It Really IS You.
Sorry to break it to you, but… Ever been involved with a commitment phobe? You know the type. They have a long history of relationships, but can never settle down. Or they cling to Friends With...
View ArticleThe First Vibrator For Men Is Here. And We’re Impressed.
Say hello to the Hot Octopuss Pulse… While you’ll be hard pressed finding a woman who wouldn’t (eventually) admit to owning a vibrator at some point in her life, men are decidedly more cagey when it...
View Article17 Disturbing Pick-Up Lines Guys Have Actually Used
Baby, you turn my floppy disk into a hard drive. I’ll never forget the night a guy approached me in a bar and confidently announced, “That dress looks great on you.” Unfortunately, before I had a...
View ArticleScience Says Men Are Too Threatened To Date Smart Women
Turns out you really are too good for him. Throw away that book in your hand and don’t you dare finishing your degree if you ever want to date a man again. At least this is what a new study suggests,...
View ArticleThe Important Message My Son Taught Me About Men
It’s not easy growing up in a world that won’t accept weakness. We all know men are different from women, yet from my experience raising sons I think many of the differences, particularly relating to...
View Article23 Things Men Say, And What They REALLY Mean
‘That looks great!’ = Pick a dress, I want to leave this store immediately. Men are a pretty simple species. It takes very little to keep one happy (read: food + sex). But reading them can be difficult...
View ArticleI Went A Week Without Saying Sorry. Here’s What Happened.
I’m sorry, but… I’m sorry to be the one to tell you, but if you’re a woman reading this, chances are you’re a chronic over-apologizer. From my experience, women tend to excuse their behavior an awful...
View ArticleReally?! Study Finds A Quarter Of Men Fake Orgasms
Um…what the? If you’re a woman reading this, chances are you’re familiar with the fake orgasm, most likely because at some point in your life, a heated (or not so heated) liaison has compelled you to...
View ArticleMen Have No Idea How To Date Me Anymore
And it’s doing my head in. Modern day dating is a battlefield where only the strongest get out alive. And by strong, I mean those who show no emotions and play a strategic game in the name of finding...
View ArticleWhat I Learned From Going On 50 First Dates In A Year
You win some, you lose some. Last year, I went on 50 first dates. It’s not like I woke up one morning and decided to go on a Tinder spree, but after a recent heartbreak, I looked at all the men I was...
View ArticleWhy I’ve Never Had A Real Boyfriend
And I definitely don’t want you to set me up with your friend. I come from a country town where it’s common to be married with two children before you turn 25. Me, on the other hand? I’ve never had a...
View ArticleThese Are The Features Guys Find The Sexiest, According To Science
Getting ‘checked out’ just took on a whole new meaning. Some of us can’t stand being checked out by men when we cross the street or enter a room, and some of us kind of secretly love it. (I personally...
View Article17 Pics That Prove Men With Beards Are Sexy AF
Hello, sailor… If there’s one thing that turns me on more than a man in glasses (if you don’t agree guys in specs are hot, you clearly haven’t seen our men-in-glasses porn), it’s a dude sporting a...
View ArticleWhy I Give Men Feedback After Our Dates
Wouldn’t you want to know how you could improve? We’ve all been on a date before and thought ‘this is why you’re single’ – but would you ever tell them what you’ve concluded? When I hired a dating...
View ArticleHere’s What He Means When He Says He Just Wants To Be Friends
Eight things guys always say, decoded. When I was new to the dating world, I took everything men told me at face value. It took me a while to figure out that although they were speaking English, you...
View ArticleI’ve Been Skinny-Shamed And Fat-Shamed. Fat-Shaming Is Worse.
Skinny-shaming is not okay, but neither is dismissing fat-shaming. We live in a world where people think it’s okay to say mean things about other people’s bodies, provided they do it from behind a...
View ArticleAre Male-Female Friendships Really Always Clouded By Sex?
Let’s keep things platonic. In the classic rom-com When Harry Met Sally, Harry famously states that, “Men and women can’t be friends because the sex part gets in the way.” And then they go on to prove...
View ArticleThe Curious Case Of Why Women Are Still Doing The Dishes
It’s a man’s world. Apparently. I’ve always deeply appreciated the fact I came out of a childhood where I got to benefit from the best of both worlds. My mother was a stay-at-home parent until I was...
View Article13 Hacks For Getting A Pay Rise From High-Flying Women
How to ask for what you deserve. The end of the year is fast approaching – and so is annual pay review time. Even though it’s 2016, there’s still a pay gap between the genders, and women are on the...
View Article19 Pics That Prove Guys Look WAY Hotter With Beards
Hubba, hubba. There’s no denying 2016 has been the year of the beard. And I, for one, am not complaining. Beards aren’t only ruggedly handsome, they have the ability to turn an average looking Joe into...
View ArticleSorry Donald, Bragging About Sexual Assault Isn’t ‘Just Locker Room Talk’
Words are powerful. In case you missed it, last week the Republican candidate for President of the United States was heard openly bragging about sexually assaulting women. In a leaked video from 2005,...
View ArticleI’m Sick Of Being Slut-Shamed Just Because I Like Sex
I’m a living, breathing, feeling woman. Not a robot. I’ll gladly raise my hand and admit I enjoy having sex. I just wish people would stop slut-shaming me for it. I love how sex makes me feel, and I...
View ArticleHere’s What It Means To Be An Ethical Slut
You don’t have to just be one or the other The term ‘slut’ has traditionally been used as a ‘dirty’ word ascribed to women who openly enjoy sex. Women, of course, aren’t supposed to love sex – it’s...
View ArticleI’m Just Going To Say It – Guys Who Split The Bill On Dates Are Douchebags
If you make me split the bill on a date with you, don’t expect me to go out with you again. It’s a topic that everyone has a different view on, but as far as I’m concerned, if a man insists we split...
View Article17 Guys Who Failed Spectacularly At Picking Up
Do any of these pick-up lines actually work, like, ever?! Look, everyone knows dating can be hard, and while Tinder and online messaging has made it a bit easier to find people you might be interested...
View Article16 Men Reveal What They’re REALLY Thinking During Sex
Wow, don’t hold back guys… It’s something we all wonder about the men in our lives from time to time: what’s going through his head right now? But when we’re doin’ the nasty, the question goes to a...
View ArticleA Brief History Of The F*ckboy
How you doin, Fuckboy? Perhaps, like me, you are old and not conversant with the term ‘fuckboy.’ Or perhaps you’ve recently become single and have suddenly, unwillingly, become intimately familiar with...
View ArticleWomen Are Totally Lying When We Say Looks Don’t Matter, Says New Study
He might be dumb as a post, but hot damn, he’s pretty… A new study published in the journal, Evolutionary Psychological Science, suggests guys with killer personalities don’t always get ahead in the...
View ArticleWhat Happened When I Tried Vagina Perfume To Attract Men
Can dabbing your own intimate scent on yourself make men more into you? I’ve taken sex dust, done Kegels with a device connected to my phone, gone to an orgasm class and tried just about every vibrator...
View Article6 Reasons Why Men Actually Really Do Love Bitches
Treat ’em mean, keep ’em keen. It might have been 15 years since the now-iconic New York Times best-selling relationship self-help book, Why Men Love Bitches was first published, but its premise...
View ArticleWe Asked 16 Men What A Period Is. Here Are Their Shocking Answers.
We need better sex education for boys, stat. Maybe it’s because they split the boys and girls up in sex ed class, and only made the girls pass around a cup of water and a tampon for a demo on how...
View ArticleWhat Happened When I Told My Man He Had A Small Penis
Someone had to say it, right? I told him he had a small penis… Well, if you’re looking for accuracy, I actually told him that his junk probably couldn’t hit my sexual “spot” — which isn’t much better,...
View Article11 Men Reveal How They Knew They Were In Love
Get ready to have all the feels… Is there anything better than being in love? No matter how much of a cynical front we may try to put on, everyone’s chasing that feeling of contentment and happiness...
View ArticleMen, Here’s Why I Can’t Give You The Benefit Of The Doubt
Your feelings aren’t as important as my safety. I can’t tell you how many times men have told me I should just give them the benefit of the doubt. They like to tell me how much they aren’t like other...
View ArticleWhy Do Women Put Up With Childish, Entitled Men?
Seriously. Do your own freakin’ laundry, guys. Several people close to me went out of their way to share a video with me over the last month. The video is by lesbian comedian DeAnne Smith, and she...
View ArticleWhy I Call Men Out On Their BS On Tinder
If it’s not okay in person, it’s not okay. When it comes to online dating on Tinder, Bumble, and the like, I’ve developed a strict policy of calling men out on their bullshit behavior. I’ve been told I...
View ArticleMen In Positions Of Power Abusing Women Is Endemic, But Not Incurable
From Hollywood all the way to the White House, something is really wrong here. It feels like every time I unlock my phone, turn on a TV or glance at a newspaper headline, another powerful man is...
View ArticleMen Ranked Best To Worst According To Their Zodiac Signs
If he’s a Libra, you’ve probably struck gold. If he’s a Virgo though, watch out. It’s been a pretty bad year for men, and 2017 isn’t even over yet. Harvey Weinstein, Kevin Spacey, and Louis C.K. all...
View Article4 Lies I’ve Told Everyone I’ve Ever Had Sex With
I’m sorry, but men, you make it criminally easy to play you. If you’re easily offended, or prone to prudishness, you should probably stop reading right here; because I’m about to spill some real...
View Article17 Christmas Gift Ideas For Men Who Are Impossible To Buy For
Which, let’s face it, is basically all men. Why are guys so difficult to gift-give to? While shopping for our girlfriends and female family members is typically a fun-filled experience, buying for the...
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